The Cuddle Compass
Explore four directions of closeness until your bodies find tonight's easiest fit.
The Spark
- 1
Try each direction for two minutes, adjusting arms, legs, pillows, and distance rather than forcing a picture-perfect pose.
- 2
In each, one person names what feels supported and the other makes one small comfort edit.
- 3
Return to the favorite spooning, side-lying, or face-to-face position and explore mutual masturbation or gentle touch there.
Why you might like it
A small position tour helps couples discover comfortable closeness beyond their default cuddle.
Make it softer
Try only side-by-side and back-to-back with separate blankets.
Turn up the Heat
Add kissing or clothed grinding in the winning direction.
Do not trap limbs or bear weight on another person's chest, neck, or abdomen.