Sideways Sunday
A low-effort side-lying arrangement that leaves hands, mouths, and hips free to improvise.
The Spark
- 1
Begin with kissing and manual or toy stimulation while both bodies remain fully supported.
- 2
Adjust hip angle and leg placement in small increments to allow grinding, external genital contact, or shallow penetration if wanted.
- 3
Keep one free hand on external stimulation, switch facing direction if useful, and finish in the arrangement that requires the least strain.
Why you might like it
Side-lying sex can be intimate and direct while conserving energy and making pace easy to control.
Make it softer
Keep underwear on and use kissing, grinding, and external touch.
Turn up the Heat
Pair penetration or a compatible toy with external stimulation and a deliberate rhythm change.
Use support for necks and knees, lubricant for friction or penetration, and stop any angle that causes pain or numbness.